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My Husband's Affair BECAME the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me
by Anne Bercht and Brian Bercht

"When Brian told me of his affair, my whole world was shattered. Since the affair, and since the difficult recovery period, I have excelled in amazing ways in every area of my life. I look and feel better than I did when I was in my twenties. I have more energy, more zeal and more enthusiasm for life. Since I have gotten over my insecurities, I experience far better relationships with my husband, children and others. I also have more fun. No matter what tragedies happen in our lives, we always have a choice, not a choice over what will happen to us, but a choice over how we will react to it. Will we become bitter or better? I chose to become better, and now my greatest tragedy has also become my greatest personal victory." – Anne Bercht "Would I want to go back to our marriage before the affair? Not a chance! Would I have liked to have gotten to this point some other way? Absolutely! Would I recommend an affair to others so they can reach a greater love and better marriage? Absolutely not! If you have experienced an affair, is rebuilding your marriage worth it? You bet it is! As long as you love each other and are willing to do the work." – Brian Bercht

"This book makes a wonderful contribution to the growing willingness of couples to “break the code of silence” and share their experience with affairs in order to help others. It offers clear insight into the pain involved as well as great hope for the power to recover and rebuild the marriage." – Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth and former host of "My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me deliberately removes itself from providing 'the theoretical and psychological' explanations for the why of infidelity and instead purpose to take readers on a gut-honest, courageous, straight-from-the-heart journey into the lives of a couple/family who endured the aftermath of an affair. A must-read before couples, facing infidelity, make life decisions they may later regret. This book provides an alternative to the expected … hope that it’s not over." – Don Huston, BTh, MC, RCC, Couples Therapist "What a ride! Anne captures her marital journey in a way that leaves you feeling as if you’ve just completed a double loop on a roller coaster … only to realize there’s another one coming! After reading their story, I see Anne and Brian as champions of honesty, commitment, perseverance and true love." – Monica Columbus, BA, B.Ed, Educator "I loved this book! It is informative and gives a positive example for others struggling to rekindle their marriage after such trauma. Moving and very powerful emotionally. The insights and honesty offered are right on the money and extremely well-articulated. There can be no greater goal than rebuilding a marriage to the benefit of both spouses and the family." – Bettina Gregory, Psy. D, Host of American Life Television’s American Family

Anne and Brian Bercht are authors, speakers and relationship coaches. They specialize in helping couples and individuals restore their lives after infidelity, and their marriages when both desire to do so and are willing to do the work. They are founders of Beyond Affairs, and hosts of the website, where they have published more than one hundred articles and podcasts to help people recover from affairs. Anne is also the director of BAN – Beyond Affairs Network, an international network of support groups for betrayed spouses. Brian and Anne have co-created seminars and courses that have positively impacted thousands of lives, which include Healing from Affairs, Healing from Affairs Online, Take Your Life Back and Man of Honor. They have shared their story and expertise around the world through magazines, newspapers, radio interviews, television documentaries and talk shows including appearances on Oprah three times. Together they have four children and ten grandchildren, which are the joy of their lives. They live in Washington, where, in addition to their seminar work they are busy writing new books and planning more ways to bring healing and health to families.


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