In "Why Not Have It All", we are shown how best to navigate the turbulent waters of modern life. As a woman, this can be both complex and demanding, for there has been a sea change in societal mores which has, in many instances, left us in newly uncharted waters. Bonita Shelby is a woman who has, with God’s help, managed to find her way and wants to act as a beacon to others—keeping us off the rocks that might otherwise capsize us.

The shifting demands of love, marriage, children, education, and employment need not overwhelm us. Indeed, when balanced they can form the very pillars of a life of fulfilment through God’s favor and grace.

"Why Not Have It All" presents a wealth of practical advice, for women(of all ages) that is backed up by scripture, and set against a number of compelling biographical glimpses into the life of Bonita herself. Personal and powerful, it is a work that is sure to inspire and instruct likeminded readers.

Mrs. Bonita Andrea Shelby is the "multi-talented" Pastor’s wife of Burning Bush International Ministries and married to Bishop Don William Shelby Jr. The Shelbys are known nationally and internationally as cast members of Oxygen Networks reality television series, "The Preachers of Detroit" where she along with her husband (and family) potrayed the strong bond of a Pastor, wife and children who remained close and connected while balancing life, ministry and individual careers. Mrs Shelby is a well known evangelist and the mother of five talented children..the christian recording group, "The Shelby 5." She is not only an awesome mother, but a spiritual mother, mentor, motivational speaker, entreprenuer, choir master, singer, vocal trainer, administrator and fashion designer of the clothing label "Bonita Couture". It is her desire that women today achieve the equilibrium required to live the life that they deserve. It is only through balancing all aspects of life that we are able to properly take a seat at the table and mindfully enjoy the feast that God has set out before us. Bonita encourages all women to make a choice to pursue, overtake and recover all! You win.....Why Not Have it All!